tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post9146340772095871292..comments2023-11-23T00:18:23.640-08:00Comments on Frost Lord: To Leash Or Not To Leash?T.D. McFrosthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12923335522993845076noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-12179429590287763822012-03-14T06:25:10.698-07:002012-03-14T06:25:10.698-07:00Hahah! My mom used the kid leash once on me when I...Hahah! My mom used the kid leash once on me when I was 5. And when I started barking like a dog in a store filled with people, she took it off and never used it again!Elise Fallsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14734537117333738468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-59274335664988393122012-03-12T21:34:32.694-07:002012-03-12T21:34:32.694-07:00Of course I know it's all in jest,Tracey, but ...Of course I know it's all in jest,Tracey, but there are some folks who are WAYYY too politically correct. <br /><br />I used to pee in my mom's high heels; She even has the video to prove it. :DT.D. McFrosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12923335522993845076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-14841396394291893162012-03-12T16:58:26.190-07:002012-03-12T16:58:26.190-07:00No, I don't think kids need to be leashed in o...No, I don't think kids need to be leashed in order for them to behave in a public place. But if I were to go that route, I would also cage my children. As a former babysitter, I know that children left uncaged in the house will chew on your shoes, pee on the floor, and squirt chocolate syrup from the balcony down the wall (true story).<br /><br /><br />(Also, I'm totally kidding. I'm never sure if the Internet can understand sarcasm, and I'd hate for you to think I'm pro-cage.)Tracey Neithercotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16539278941411542797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-74708125636286373632012-03-12T13:30:58.253-07:002012-03-12T13:30:58.253-07:00Breed sounds like such a feral word to use in rega...Breed sounds like such a feral word to use in regard to humans, Michael. It made me laugh.<br /><br />I am against leashes, that is understood, but I will not condemn it, call social services or do anything drastic--it's your kids so do whatever. As long as their happy and healthy, I'm fine. <br /><br />I knew this topic was going to spark great debate and I'm glad I chose it over Kony 2012. :DT.D. McFrosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12923335522993845076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-10641815913349568222012-03-12T13:29:58.420-07:002012-03-12T13:29:58.420-07:00I'm anti-leash, too. I can see if a parent is ...I'm anti-leash, too. I can see if a parent is by him/herself and may have his/her hands busy, or maybe they have several kids. Maybe they're afraid in large crowds (I let go of my mom's hand in a large crowd once and it was terrible feeling). But, overall, I don't approve of leashes. <br /><br />I'm old school as well. I knew how to behave in public and never got out of control, and I held the hand of a parent--we didn't have kid leashes in my time. As a teacher, I'm also seeing some things in my students and their parents that I don't like, which are huge differences from how I was raised, but I won't go into that because then my comment will become long-winded.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-64395181476992004302012-03-12T12:17:47.058-07:002012-03-12T12:17:47.058-07:00My opinion is that if it works, don't fix it. ...My opinion is that if it works, don't fix it. The lady obviously knows her limitations as a parent and a human being. If the leash is what works for her, then that will have to do.<br /><br />I work with all kinds of people every day in my job for voc rehab. Some people cannot even turn a computer on and get flustered by even pressing a button. I spent twenty minutes today just trying to impress upon a lady that she could plug her phone into a dial up modem so that when she wasn't using the modem, she could still use her phone. She couldn't figure out that the modem would act as a bridge between the phone cord and the one jack she has in her house.<br /><br />So given my understanding of things that I may take for granted, I understand how people could want to use a leash to control their children. Obviously, it is not the correct solution to you...a healthy intelligent young man who has other options. But if a person is not as healthy as you, has an IQ of 80, and enough energy to maybe get by on four hours a day of actual work before collapsing in exhaustion...there are going to be other considerations. And yes...these people get knocked up all the time. So yes...they have kids and breed.Michael Offutt, Phantom Readerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10557969104886174930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-86698669169943905122012-03-12T12:14:34.049-07:002012-03-12T12:14:34.049-07:00I have one younger sister and six younger brothers...I have one younger sister and six younger brothers, and my mom used leashes on a lot of them. When you're trying to keep track of that many kids in a grocery store, even with the older ones helping out, it's just impossible without some kind of physical connection.Esther Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07688983385593428361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-9209114920938835572012-03-12T10:57:35.503-07:002012-03-12T10:57:35.503-07:00I love you Tabitha! ^_^I love you Tabitha! ^_^T.D. McFrosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12923335522993845076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-18865439436785293452012-03-12T09:02:18.859-07:002012-03-12T09:02:18.859-07:00Um... HELL no.
I think leashes on children are f...Um... HELL no. <br /><br />I think leashes on children are for lazy parents. Not that I'm opinionated or anything... :) I've got two energetic boys, and I work very hard to teach them manners, accountability, and that there are consequences for their actions. There is a time and a place for running around. A public place is NOT one of them, and if they do then they know they will be in deep doo-doo when they get home. :) They are old enough now that I can give them 'the look' when they step across the line, and they will immediately straighten up. But that's only come from years of consistent action-reaction consequences on my part. <br /><br />Raising kids isn't easy--not by a long shot. But it's our responsibility as parents to take on that job and give our kids the best we can. That means structure and boundaries, not toys and games.Tabithahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17420910182752981979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-82877876414525649142012-03-11T16:36:06.151-07:002012-03-11T16:36:06.151-07:00You make some valid points Emily. For me, it just ...You make some valid points Emily. For me, it just doesn't bode well with my way of doing things. It seemed wrong and I had to inquire about it. <br /><br />Now that you mention it, it is pretty awesome that she took it so well, huh? All things aside, she was an exceptionally nice lady.<br /><br />It's nice to see others with strong and independent-minded opinions. When it's all said and done, whatever works for you and I agree with Cassie: to each his own. <br /><br />Thanks for being honest Emily. ^_^T.D. McFrosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12923335522993845076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-83042191911491694042012-03-11T15:16:24.066-07:002012-03-11T15:16:24.066-07:00I can't believe you went up to her and said so...I can't believe you went up to her and said something. I'm surprised she took it so well.<br /><br />What's more important, your child's safety or what strangers think of you? No one should ever judge or assume something, they don't know what that person is dealing with (especially if you don't have kids).<br /><br />I have some very hyper boys and I've only used a leash twice in my life (in mexico). BUT there were plenty of times when I know people wished I used a leash (like in walmart or when I'm trying to hold a newborn while chasing another boy to the other end of the mall).<br /><br />I say give the lady a break. If she was as frazzled as you describe then I'm sure she had a hard enough day without you coming along to judge her.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03308347645723660613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-34635125405875932112012-03-11T06:59:46.309-07:002012-03-11T06:59:46.309-07:00Very well said Angela. Thanks for stopping by! ^_^...Very well said Angela. Thanks for stopping by! ^_^T.D. McFrosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12923335522993845076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-48033431091228815672012-03-10T22:40:37.681-08:002012-03-10T22:40:37.681-08:00I have five children so I can certainly understand...I have five children so I can certainly understand the concept. You have no idea how freakishly difficult and scary it is to keep track of them all in a dense crowd. One could be taken in less than a second while you deal with one of the other children. I, however, have never used a leash and would never use one. I enlist helpers when I go into crowded situations (i.e., Disneyland).<br /><br />Though I understand the concept, that situation is never the reality. I see it used not as a security aid, but as a lazy-parenting aid by those who don't want to chase after their children or make them behave properly so they don't have to chase them. I'm not saying everyone who uses a leash is like this, but that's all I've ever personally seen. And yes, it is very visually appalling. The only thing that could make it worse is to add a collar with spikes...Angela McCallisterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10610798614001745001noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-81435969408970188702012-03-10T21:02:18.089-08:002012-03-10T21:02:18.089-08:00Glad you converted Jony! :D
And I'll definite...Glad you converted Jony! :D<br /><br />And I'll definitely play C.M., it'll be my pleasure!T.D. McFrosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12923335522993845076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-55450660890477682692012-03-10T20:11:25.258-08:002012-03-10T20:11:25.258-08:00Tyson, I never used leashes on my kids, far too cl...Tyson, I never used leashes on my kids, far too close to treating them like animals with small brains rather than humans with developing brains!<br />Just didn't sit right with me! Shows a lack of parenting skills too!<br />Anyway I am here to tag you in the Lucky se7en game, hope you will particapate! Find out the deatails at my site!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09678216576112327332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-38287876997424748532012-03-10T18:56:40.823-08:002012-03-10T18:56:40.823-08:00Children should not be leashed! I was in the oppos...Children should not be leashed! I was in the opposite camp until my friends with kids broke it down for me. Now I'm positively anti-leash!jonyangorghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12477612124013290363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-90459142951982813052012-03-10T17:04:40.003-08:002012-03-10T17:04:40.003-08:00Hi Eliz!
See, you didn't need to treat the ki...Hi Eliz!<br /><br />See, you didn't need to treat the kid like an animal after all. :D<br /><br />Alex: I never got time outs, just plain butt whoppin'! It's not how I will train my kids but that's how our parents did things.<br /><br />Congrats on the launch of your new book! ^_^T.D. McFrosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12923335522993845076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-54858828276766175032012-03-10T16:08:13.089-08:002012-03-10T16:08:13.089-08:00Yeah, my brother and I would've been DEAD had ...Yeah, my brother and I would've been DEAD had we stepped out of line.<br />Part of it is the change in the times. Time out? Sure, send me to my room for an hour. You won't see me for six!<br />Ultimately, it's rather sad.Alex J. Cavanaughhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09770065693345181702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-38445249635546651002012-03-10T14:50:54.951-08:002012-03-10T14:50:54.951-08:00I bought a leash when my oldest son was 18 months ...I bought a leash when my oldest son was 18 months old and we were going to be going through busy airports. I was afraid I would lose him! Hah. In a crowd, he stuck to me like glue! And I figured out the most natural solution...he could hold my hand!<br /><br />You're absolutely right, kids learn by being taught. There are no quick fixes, you just have to parent and sometimes it means chasing after a kid.Elizabeth Seckmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00045076826326574984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-68872949702135472072012-03-10T13:35:12.300-08:002012-03-10T13:35:12.300-08:00I can't wait!I can't wait!T.D. McFrosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12923335522993845076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-12914700691280774422012-03-10T12:56:13.099-08:002012-03-10T12:56:13.099-08:00It was a lot of fun, so I probably will do another...It was a lot of fun, so I probably will do another one sometime! :DKyra Lennonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13853462182450429660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-7110031107211342282012-03-10T12:51:05.696-08:002012-03-10T12:51:05.696-08:00It'll feel a bit weird jumping in this late. I...It'll feel a bit weird jumping in this late. I'll join the next one. I hope you do another real soon. :DT.D. McFrosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12923335522993845076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-22940341256006421622012-03-10T12:07:43.110-08:002012-03-10T12:07:43.110-08:00Your comment on my blog just vanished, but you can...Your comment on my blog just vanished, but you can still join in and do the blogfest over the weekend if you want. We haven't picked winners yet ;)<br /><br />I don't agree with leashes for kids either. I understand that it must be frustrating and scary to worry about your kids running away but treating them like dogs is not the answer. Good on you for speaking up!Kyra Lennonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13853462182450429660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-65314384627855231292012-03-10T11:07:09.617-08:002012-03-10T11:07:09.617-08:00LOL! Baby Vest FTW! :DLOL! Baby Vest FTW! :DT.D. McFrosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12923335522993845076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-59573434405102966362012-03-10T10:07:59.364-08:002012-03-10T10:07:59.364-08:00Ah! The baby vest! Guys look so hot in those, lol....Ah! The baby vest! Guys look so hot in those, lol.<br /><br />Yeah, I'll def. be investing in one of those if a third decides to come my way :)Cassie Maehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17706774393186819619noreply@blogger.com