tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post4749831609906709513..comments2023-11-23T00:18:23.640-08:00Comments on Frost Lord: Why Does Love Break Our Heart?T.D. McFrosthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12923335522993845076noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-68629497810743150632012-10-26T14:42:20.968-07:002012-10-26T14:42:20.968-07:00Love is a weakest string of your life. Its directl...Love is a weakest string of your life. Its directly connected to your heart. It only depends on your strong belief and mutual understanding.if a knot comes to your string it will remain unchanged for all your life. someone dies physically, but 90% dies mentally which is the toughest thing ever in this life.i too took the sweet poison of love and dying slowly. But think before you suspect your lover untill you see your selves . Then take right decision.nikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01345480107433686534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-13979504418553863042011-04-06T07:36:22.872-07:002011-04-06T07:36:22.872-07:00I too have loved and lost, and I truly feel for yo...I too have loved and lost, and I truly feel for you. Even just reading your post, I wanted to jump up and punch out that guy. I've been cheated on. I forgave her. It was never the same.<br />Obviously every situation is different and the decision comes down to can you put everything that happened behind you and move forward. Admitting the truth to yourself is often the hardest thing to do.CBame13https://www.blogger.com/profile/03840123235372295715noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-90839716599673335632011-03-02T22:35:22.066-08:002011-03-02T22:35:22.066-08:00She's cheating on you for a reason. It may be...She's cheating on you for a reason. It may be that she is not ready for a true commitment. It may be that she"s "not that into you." Or it may be that "once a cheater, always a cheater." You probably don't want to hear any of those reasons. You're not in a state of mind to make serious decisons. Try to back off, stay with family and think about what your future will look like if you stay with her. Take care of yourself. And, for your future writing, this will be the angst that will make your writing voice come alive.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-81271577977955707842011-03-02T15:13:45.935-08:002011-03-02T15:13:45.935-08:00Thanks for your kindness and support Tabitha. It m...Thanks for your kindness and support Tabitha. It means so much to me. <br /><br />I still don't know if I'll leave or stay. Tomorrow I'm going to see my mom and my sisters (and my priest) and we'll discuss the matter. The pastor might say forgive, but my family will tell me to walk. That's how I feel, really - like I'm on a crossroad between hate and forgiveness. <br /><br />I'll figure it out. I've been through a whole lot worse so things will be fine. <br /><br />Thanks for the support Tab. You rock super hard! :DT.D. McFrosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12923335522993845076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-56185902357663734082011-03-02T11:26:54.612-08:002011-03-02T11:26:54.612-08:00I know how you feel. It wasn't six years for m...I know how you feel. It wasn't six years for me, it was four. Still a huge chunk of time, and i felt like such an idiot. <br /><br />And yes, girls can be sneaky and devious. But you'll find the right one. One that's honest, loving, and loyal. You've got *lots* of time. :) Just be yourself, and someone will love you for it. :)Tabithahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17420910182752981979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-60997032733768811282011-03-02T08:38:55.502-08:002011-03-02T08:38:55.502-08:00Thanks Tabitha. :D Our trust is broken and I can&#...Thanks Tabitha. :D Our trust is broken and I can't look at her the same way. What really hurts is the fact that I gave her six years of my love and never dared betray that. I've been with one woman and don't know what it's like to play the field. That is a sad thing. <br /><br />And they say guys are dogs. HA! Girls can be just as dirty.T.D. McFrosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12923335522993845076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8634771043461491623.post-55087118428925846012011-03-02T07:19:33.718-08:002011-03-02T07:19:33.718-08:00I loved someone who cheated on me. I tried to forg...I loved someone who cheated on me. I tried to forgive and work things out, but the cheating was so big it loomed over us both, oppressive and evil. In the end, I couldn't trust anything he said and felt the urge to check up on him all the time. Sometimes I did, and sometimes I didn't. But he resented the times I did, and began to hate me for it. I began to hate him for putting me in that position in the first place. <br /><br />Things kept going downhill, and I couldn't take it anymore. I left, and have never regretted it. <br /><br />I'm so sorry you're going through thus. It's one if the worst experiences...violating, humiliating, heartbreaking. Sending you good thoughts and healing vibes for your heart.Tabithahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17420910182752981979noreply@blogger.com